First of all: trust your vibes. As with everything. But for sure in the case of precious gem stones. Energy does not lie and when you take some time to tune in with yourself, you will feel and sense when you are attracted to a stone.
Don’t overthink it. The crystal that naturally catches your eye or imagination is usually the one holding specific magic for your unique needs.
Accepted alternative? Let your lover choose.
Photo & crystal grid by the talented Anja @woodlights_woudlicht
Have a look at her Instagram, her grids with poems are magical.